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Alright guys, this week we are diving in to everybody's favorite topic, the zodiac signs. We've definitely touched on this a little bit before, but we're doing a deep dive today about everybody's different zodiac signs and really how it affects your relationships, how it affects you as an individual, how it affects friendships, and honestly we're just going good, bad, and ugly today. We're going to deep dive. Have you ever dated a sign? that you were like, I'll never date a Scorpio again. So obviously for you, it was a Scorpio. No. Was it? No, I'm dating another Scorpio. My ex was a Scorpio and this one's a Scorpio. So see, there we go, ladies and gentlemen. Another Scorpio. Another Scorpio. I have a question. Oh, God. When we talk about exes being a certain thing, is it all of... Your significant relationships have been Scorpios or would you say like a 80-20? What does that look like? So my last one and then this current one are, but no other ones prior to that have been. Yeah. That's interesting. Yeah. The one before that, the disengagement, the toxic crazy one, he was actually a Libra. Are you serious? Yes. Libra. You know, you know, you know, my unengagement was a Libra. No, I didn't know that. Really? No. Oh, my God, Cody. How have we never put that together? What day was her birthday? October 11th. Okay, his was September 27th. But yeah, Libra. Yep. Stay away from them Libras, you guys. Well, you know, they get you. They get you because their whole little thing is about balance and harmony and all that. And honestly, they're just... I think it's more about the chemical unbalance in their fucking brain. That is what is really... going on behind the scenes there they just trick you yeah they do they're really good in the beginning about like um putting on i feel like yeah putting on this facade of like i'm this really cool understanding sweet person um you know really relatable relates to everything treats you really well like they really know how to draw you in and then before they really basically um laid on you of who they really are yeah oh god it's funny and it's funny how um some signs really do get you thinking about certain things or like really bring up certain parts of yourself you know for instance like with libras i just don't i just don't see it like there there's a lot of things about balance that they talk about with them so you think it's going to be like a very kosher kind of deal but realistically They're indecisive as fuck. Yeah. Or they know it's so it's that and like they'll say it's just they're just good manipulators. They'll say one thing, but then like you find out it's another. All right. So it's on one side of the scale. Yeah. One or the other. And it's so polarized for sure. Yeah. Not not not good. Yeah.

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I'm just like super surprised that the person that I'm dating now is the same sign as the ex because they're so different though. I will say. Well, so, so how did that, that goes into what your, what is it like your moon rising is or? So it's really more so. And again, of course I'm the expert on this cause I'm the gay one. If you don't know, and I'm the spiritual girly, but spiritual really doesn't necessarily mean that you're into all the astrological, right? It's basically like, you know, the driver's test for lesbians, you have to be, like, in tune with, like, Zodiac and all that kind of stuff. I didn't realize it was a thing for you guys. It's a real thing. In fact, I've only ever dated one person that wasn't into it, and it was, like, a full-on ick for her, so I think maybe a past ex fucked it up. We talked about that. Oh, yeah, yeah, we talked about that. But, yeah, so really, you know, your sun sign is the most prevalent, they say, but it really is about your entire birth chart. Okay. So, yeah. I know I've shared this with you before that one of the apps that I use, like almost on a daily is called the pattern. Oh yeah. Um, and we'll link it in the show notes for anybody else who wants it. But honestly, it, I've always been, I've always been the girl to go and like have that horoscope daily horoscope app on their phone or, you know, go in immediately as I start talking to somebody, look up, you know, what their sign is and if we're compatible and, you know, and like all of those things. I mean, if you haven't done that like you're lying or you're just yeah truly you're not doing the work but but the pattern app is really really cool um you can go in so so but the the for the signs because you could be a certain sign like like um my ex and the current one how different right you could be a certain sign but it's based off of uh where you were born right where like where you were born what location as well as the time you were born right and then where in the month you were born and things like that too. Absolutely. No, it's about the time and date that you were born and where. So it truly not all apps will give you this, guys, but this is probably the best free app out there that will ask you all the right questions to truly get the best picture possible because it's all about where the signs were in alignment at the time and date that you were born and where you were born. Because if you're born in England, you know, like London, England versus California, like the stars are going to be in a different alignment, even if you were born at the exact same time. Because it's just different, right? So yeah, there's a lot of differences there, you know, and your chart can tell you a lot of things. So like for me, for instance, I'm an Aries sun. And I have my moon in Libra, my Venus in Aries, Mars in Pisces. My rising is a Leo and, you know, it goes on and on. But like really, I think it's like your sun, moon and rising or ascendant, depending on like what. you know, app you're on. Yeah. Those are kind of like the three most prevalent that are going to like give you the most. So same thing, like with your ex and with Prince Charming or Knight in Shining Armor, whatever we're calling him now. Prince Charming would have been easier. Yeah. But with them, I would say they probably have completely opposite moon and risings. Okay. So even though their sun sign is the same and probably some like aspects are true and like very like similar and probably, you know, maybe some of the things that you're attracted to, whether it be like their communication style or whatever are probably very, very similar. But then you have those other two that are going to be like totally like opposite and like, cause your, your rising sign is what's like, pulling you to the next thing. Right. So like, obviously we're not right. So obviously like Prince charming has a rising sign that is like ambitious and pushing him to the next thing and like has him on a pretty good timeline where Mr. Failure to launch. It doesn't have that. Oh my God. She just did that. She just did that. Okay. Yeah. But I was just using it. Because we're talking about the signs, it's so wrong to compare. That's part of it. The reason why I was using that as an example is there could be people that are of two different signs. It's science. It's science. Just because there could be two people, there could be People that are completely different that are of the same signs, but I think there will be characteristics that are somewhat the same. Absolutely. But it depends. Absolutely. Have you ever had any encounters with Scorpios? Have you dated any Scorpios? You know, I don't think I've ever dated any Scorpios, but I have had really good friends that were Scorpios. Do you usually mesh well with Scorpios? Um, I'm thinking of one off the top of my head and she was one of my really, really good friends. And I really like, we're not really friends anymore or at least don't necessarily like hang out and talk every day. Yeah. But, um, like salt to the earth person. Like I don't have anything really negative to say. Yeah. Like, you know what I mean? Like she was always a really, really good friend. I mean, a good friend to me, always available, always like wanting to help out, like just good, good friend. Yes. Um, but I never dated her. Any Scorpios. I would say I pretty prolifically end up dating... I was going to ask. I wanted to know who is like your common sign that you date. Yeah, my common sign, like I would say of all the signs that I have had like significant relationships with would be like Aquariuses. Okay. And Aries, which is interesting because I am also an Aries. Yeah. Okay. But I would say out of like my five... good like most like um like out there and like significant relationships that I've had I would say like four of them were Aquarius and two of them were Aries okay and you're an Aries and then the one Libra but okay that was you know and then and then you're an Aries and I'm a Capricorn for reference um and Capricorns are really known for being very like headstrong being very like driven very motivated very independent very um just general Generally, and I would say that that pretty well fits me. We're going to fact check that. Okay, go ahead. I have ambitious, see, very ambitious, disciplined, goal-oriented. Do you want me to read? So the strengths that we have here are ambitious and goal-oriented, responsible and disciplined, practical and realistic, patient and persistent, loyal and supportive. Not patient. I'm not patient. Yeah, so there's something in your rising that is really messing with that or your mood. The weaknesses that it shows in here, stubborn and inflexible. I've definitely seen you be stubborn and inflexible. Okay. Pessimistic and worrisome. Yep. Yeah. Workaholic tendencies. Yeah, that one's a definite. I'm aware. Emotionally reserved. I'm pretty open hearted. Sometimes you get in your... And you're like, close off, put up the walls. Sometimes. You go through waves with that, I think. Yeah. You go through waves with it where sometimes I feel like you catch yourself. You try to be a little bit more reserved, like you pull back a little bit and then... True. You know, but it's okay. It could be a door. Um, and then serious and reserved. I don't necessarily see that for you. Yeah. Okay. Let's pull up yours. I want to pull up Aries here and you can, you can read mine. Okay. I'm going to read yours. I will say for me, typically the people, my closest friends and the people I get along the best with are Aries. Really? Yeah. You like your Aries. Remember we figured out like you, um, Millie and I think, or no, I don't know. There was like multiple people where I was like, Oh my God, you guys are all, I was like, okay, Aries. I was like. Yeah. Yeah. And then Taurus too. Katie's a Taurus. Yeah. I have a lot of Tauruses in my life. My mom and my brother are both Tauruses. Yeah. And I definitely see. Yeah. Because that's a thing for sure. Okay. But a lot of my good friends have been Aries too. Yeah. Aries. That's like the main one that I've noticed usually with friendships. Okay. Okay, so yours says your strengths are courageous and brave and Determined and ambitious. Confident and self-assured. Optimistic and enthusiastic. Honest and direct. Okay, yes. Definitely honest and direct. I would say, yeah. I would say yeah to all of these. Determined, courageous, and brave. Definitely. Yes. And big on the honest and direct. Always. Always direct. That's probably more of a weakness than a strength. Well, it depends on who you ask. I prefer direct. I prefer honest. Okay. Let's get the weaknesses. The weakness, impulsive and impatient. That's definitely. Short-tempered and aggressive. Yes, I have seen it. Stubborn and headstrong. Yeah, I think me and you both are that way. Yeah. Self-centered and attention-seeking. I don't know that I would agree with that one. I don't really think you like that. We do have a podcast where we talk about ourselves for hours on end. No, but I would never like put you in that category like, oh, Cody's self-centered. Like, I don't know. No, that's why I have you as a co-host. Oh, because to help counterbalance that. But attention-seeking, I'll take that for what it is. Whoa, okay. This one's definitely you. Restless and easily bored. Yeah, that's like probably the one I would say is the most of the weakness side. That's like the most, yeah, accurate. That's the kill shot right there. That's the kill shot, yeah. Yeah. Easily bored for sure. Yeah. So, yeah, I don't know, you guys. You guys will have to like look more into this and ask yourself, is there a sign that you... if you will we talk a lot about types right which kind of fits into this is there a sign now yeah now they're gonna have to go back and look right that you typically date or that you would never date again or um maybe you can look at your friends and see like what are their signs yeah and and see if it's you know if there's a common thread there absolutely i would say for me Of all the signs that I've dated, even if it was just like little here and there, I would say Geminis are somewhere I'd never go back. Gemini. I've never dated a Gemini. My dad's a Gemini though and he's, yeah, not good in relationships. Terrible. Because Gemini is like legit, they're like, I think it's like the twins or something like that. It's like a two-faced thing. And honestly, like, I mean, I have a lot of friends that are Geminis and they're totally cool. But I also, like, I've dated a couple of Geminis and that is some tumultuous shit. where like you're dating one person one day and one person the next yeah and it's you know you gotta take it for what it is so like honestly guys if you're looking for a sign look into their sign yeah so yeah honestly truly you guys I mean I know everyone's beliefs are different, but I really do believe that these things are here to help us understand each other and ourselves a little bit better. And I believe in it. I really do believe in this stuff a thousand percent. Absolutely. Especially like you were the one that specifically showed me this app, which is called The Pattern. so you do have to know the the time you were born and that's kind of always the thing that like with him he was like oh i gotta you know ask the mom what time you know you have to figure that out and you want that to be kind of accurate because it does play a difference because Mine and his connection on this app changed. It went to powerful once he factored in the time. Thank God. I know. We were kind of worried when we were reading it. With this, it's really cool because not only will it tell you a lot about yourself, but it also tells you a lot about you can add another person. They enter all their information on their app. It's called bonds. You can see how you bond with them. You can either put as a romantic partner or as a friendship. We were looking at up doing some investigative research I sent it to the guy that I've been seeing and he put his stuff in and basically there's different categories for romantic partners it's let's see what are the categories there's soulmate extraordinary powerful meaningful complex delicate and challenging and And we got powerful was what we got, which was really cool. And it's just really cool. Like it tells you like the pros and the cons kind of, you know, and like where your friction lies and your frustrations with each other and different stuff like that, which I think is really cool. Absolutely. I mean, so how I stumbled across this app initially was a friend of mine sent it to me and her boyfriend had it. We had my ex on there and like we were all friends. with each other on there because you can it's great to have for like relationships like your partners but also I have now like added like most of my close friends onto this app too because every day you go into this little like lens thing right here and it'll give you like five or six different updates for the day sometimes more if you have more people on here but it'll give you like your daily vibe and then it'll also have what they call like an impact and depending on like each person and what cycles they're in right now, it'll say what's impacting your friend right now. So honestly, there's a lot of things in here where I go in and look at this and I might read it and say, okay, you know what? One of my friends hasn't been hitting me up as often or hasn't been as communicative or is a little snappy or short. If I read this, it'll literally say like, Don't be concerned if, you know, Kaylee is in a mood today. Like, it's the stars. It's not you. Yeah, literally. It is. And honestly, it's really, like, I feel like it's just one of those things that gives you, like, it's the more you know. Right? Like, it's my favorite thing that I say all the time. Like, luck favors the prepared. And, like, this is just a little bit of, like, background research on the people in your life. Yes. Absolutely. Yeah. So, I mean, I know for us... Like our friendship in here. It's cool because you could do friendships too. So you can do friendship bonds or you can do all these things. And it kind of tells you like what your– what your challenges are, what your, like, your bonds. And it's so true, you guys. We've read it. We've done it with so many people. Like, we're telling you about this. By the way, this isn't sponsored, but hit us up, Pattern, if you want to sponsor us. Right. I would love to get that free subscription so I can go deeper. No, so it's not, like, sponsored or anything. We just genuinely liked it, and we were like, it's pretty accurate, and I feel like it's just a cool tool to use for life and your relationships with people. Yeah. So, like, for Kaylee and I, our friendship is... labeled as golden. And our first little snapshot says, you and Keely have an unusually strong connection. Even if there are other tensions between you, there's an aspect of connection that is especially enjoyable and probably makes both of you feel more confident. Yeah, totally. Honestly, I feel like that is why you're the only person that I could do this with. You know? Because at the end of the day, it's like, like I do feel more confident when you're next to me. Oh, thank you, babe. I appreciate that. You make me feel confident too. You're like, you're my hype woman. And then like the next thing on here, it says you and Keely both have a dominant side at times. You might butt heads, but if you both try or if you both try to lead, and I will tell you that it's the only time that her and I bicker is sometimes when it's like, you know, most of the time we, we just lead from the back, you know, where it's, We just do things together. We're always on the same page, always on the same pace. But there are some times where, like, I feel like you want to be, like, the leader that day or days where I want to be the leader that day. I feel like we just learned. It doesn't happen often. We've learned to take turns. We've learned to, like, take turns. And if we hadn't, like, I feel like that's really the only time that we ever really butt heads. Mm-hmm. I agree. And reading that, like, now you know. Yep. You know, like it's like awareness. Awareness is everything. Yes. Okay. But I want to know what it says for you and Prince Charming. Okay. So it says, so where did you go? Did you go to snapshots? Yeah. Okay. Let's see. It says... let's see so this person may okay so this is talking about him um feels judged so may feel so often feels judged in life and in his relationships but this time it's different with you he's not repeating this pattern of attracting someone who makes him feel inadequate um and he's not repeating the same pattern so the main thing that it says is for both him and i there's something very pleasurable about being in each other's company it just feels good to be around each other additionally being out in the world or in public together might feel exciting and sexy because you boost each other's confidence which we totally do yeah let's just you know go back and listen to the soft launch episode you guys that is so on point i think it's so cute and then um It says, because of this dynamic, you have the potential to help each other's careers or benefit from an alliance or partnership. This pattern also expands your sense of security and adds a sense of comfort and support to your connection. You have the potential to build a happy life and home together if you choose. I love that. I thought that was cute. That's so cute. And then it also said, and this was so... Like what I've always said is like, it just basically said when that we've like, it also said like we've met in a past life as friends that we've known each other. Yes. And it said, that's why you probably felt a sense of overwhelming comfort. And like, you knew him when you met him, which I totally did. Then it says like, when you're together, things just flow because you guys speak the same language, which makes it easier to get intimate also with each other. And, um, And yeah. So it's just funny because that's something I've also said is I'm like, I just feel like we speak the same language. Yeah. Like I don't have to overly explain with him like when we communicate. Right. Which is cool. Like it's just you guys already are like good. Yeah. Like the line is open. I'm surprised he's not. I'm surprised he's not an Aries because I feel like I feel like you guys have very similar like a lot of similar things. Well, that is where you, you know, I can look into this and like look at our charts. I bet you like our moon or like our ascendant. Yeah. You know, rising is probably similar. Yeah. Or the same. And then you guys also get along really well. Yeah, we really do. Which same thing, just like I said, like other friends that I have that were Scorpios, like totally get along in that same way. Like we just bonded immediately. And I feel like that's how it was with me and Prince Charming. Yeah. I've just given him a new nickname now. I think it's better. Yeah. I like it better anyway. Okay. Let's see. What was yours with the girl you've been talking to? So I know we kind of like soft launch door number three. So I had her go onto this app and put it on here and I was pleasantly surprised. Oh, what does it say? So this is crazy. Because I've, this is probably, I've had this app for a long time, but I will say that ever since I started using it the first time, every person that I pop in here, like, or every person that pops into my life, like I make them get this. Cause I want to know. Yeah. Um, so we got extraordinary as like our label, which is like the second best. Yeah. Um, I'm curious about that soulmate one. I know. It said it was the rarest. Yeah, it is. Like, who would be? Like, who gets that? Well, I will tell you that there are certain things on here. So on here, you get a snapshot, and then you also get relationship dynamics, which is all those different slides on there. Some people get more than others. I feel like this one definitely had the most different dynamics, as they call them. But this was the first time that I ever had a label. So on here, guys, just for context, if you don't know and you haven't tried this yet, the different dynamics kind of expand and give you a good snapshot of all these different things that can affect your relationship. And they can be labeled as attraction, harmony, trials, amazing, frustration, all these different things. With this girl, this was the first time ever that I ever got a relationship dynamic that was labeled life-changing. Ooh. And it has a little infinity sign next to it. Okay. Okay. And not only did I get one, but I got three. Oh. So of these life-changing dynamics, the very first one, or actually I'll go to this one. This one, it'll also tell you the strongest connection and the strongest, like the, what is it called on here? It's called... Oh, I don't even have one on here with her. How funny. There's one that's like, oh, biggest challenge. I do have one with her. But the strongest connection that I had on here, which is like the most prolific out of all the ones that you get, it's called vertex, synchronistic alignment. This part of your connection with door number three is powerful and may even feel like it's brought on by fate. Like your life will never be the same. Meeting each other is meant to move you both towards your destinies. Your souls are traveling in the same direction right now for a reason. And then another one that was in here was past link and future destiny. Okay, that's weird. Why does mine not have that? It doesn't have any of that. Well, because you probably don't have that. Like it doesn't... Yeah, that's crazy. Yeah. See, so it truly is all different. Yeah. Depending on your... Your thing. So this one, it says your connection with door number three could feel incredibly deep. Like you two have shared lifetimes together, but at the same time, you're in each other's lives for right now for a reason that affects your destiny. It could feel like there is already a built-in sense of trust or a feeling of home between you. Like you understand each other. Your connection will likely transform your outlook on love and relationships. There might be a sense that knowing each other will change your life forever. damn yeah you got a really good one you got a good match i know it's pretty crazy so now the other cool thing about this app as you start to truly use it like over and over again is that it'll also tell you when you have pattern recognitions meaning that you've also shared this pattern with somebody else oh damn so ironically the biggest challenge for her and I, is this intense but powerful frustration, okay? And I have this pattern recognition with two of the other people that I have been madly in love with. Oh, dang. In the past. So it's accurate, accurate. It's accurate. And the fact that that is the, like, you know, the one. Yes. So this is supposed to be the most, like, the worst, the biggest challenge, right? On your best days as a couple... There's a feeling that your connection with door number three is significant and could possibly change your future. She might be giving you the push that you need to discover your true passions and embrace your life with greater authenticity. Alternatively, if there's conflict, it could be because she brings up uncomfortable feelings like fears or insecurities. You might feel like you're going deeper and confronting what's superficial in your life, or instead of facing your fears, you might feel like this energy is overwhelming or inhibiting you. In any case, your I love that. Dang. You got a really good one. Yeah. So it's weird to like see certain patterns that are recognized from past relationships too. So like when you see that, like, I mean, think about that. Have you ever been with somebody and you're like, they totally remind me of somebody else. Oh yeah. Oh definitely. Whether it be friendships or, or a relationship, things like that. Yeah. Sometimes you feel like you've met that person before or like, you're like, these two people are so much alike. Yeah. You know? So literally, like I said, so I, obviously that one that I told you. Yeah. Um, I had two people that were like recognized things. So one of them was my ex, like the unengagement. Right. Um, The other person that I had it in there was an ex, like my very first girlfriend I ever had, who like we went through some very, very tumultuous shit. However, like we're still in each other's lives. Like we're almost, you know, considered like I'd consider her one of my best friends now. We're a lot better as friends than we were otherwise. But she reminded me so much of her. When I first met her. Yeah. Oh, you were telling me that today. And it was weird. So literally I call her, I call my ex and I'm like, hey, like I need you to go in here and I need you to download this app because I want to see if my theory is correct. And sure enough, I had like four of the repeated patterns. Yeah. That I would have had with her. And super, super weird. Yeah. That's crazy. Yeah. What do you feel like is like the freakiest sign? Ooh. Like the most sexual. Definitely. I would say definitely Aries. Aries? You think so? And I'm not necessarily saying that for myself. Yeah. Because I don't know, like I wouldn't necessarily call myself like freaky. Yeah. You know, but like I'm definitely like down. Yeah. Like there's not a lot of things I'll say no to. Yeah. But in my experience, I would say yeah. Definitely. So best in bed for you, Aries. Aries and probably Geminis. Geminis, which are also the most toxic ones. Yes. Oh my gosh. Clearly, I have a type. I definitely think Scorpios for me are very passionate and very spicy in the bedroom. And like kind of I align there. I align with that. Yeah. I think that for me. What would you say worst is? Worst?

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Or do you even remember his birthday? Oh, God. I would say definitely the most vanilla. Oh, cancer. Okay. There's a cancer that stands out to me. I have some friends that were cancers that, you know, I mean, I never went there, but I heard some stories. I would say Libra was very vanilla for me. Libra. Okay. Okay. What else? Let's see. What about most toxic zodiac sign? Gemini, you said, right? Gemini, for sure. But, you know, I would say this is where the wires get crossed, okay? So Gemini was almost like more openly toxic, right? The Libras are more sneaky. The Libras were just kind of like, well, this is me now. Mm hmm. You know. Yep. And, you know, I'm almost like in my mind right now, like envisioning like the scale. Mm hmm. You know, and it's like almost things are really, really good when it's balanced. Mm hmm. And then all of a sudden it's like, boom, when you go the other way, it's really, really hard to bring it back to a balance. Yep. I would agree. I think for me, it's Libra's for sure. The most the most toxic. Yeah.

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Yep. Because they will they will gaslight you. They will put they will put a rock on either side of that scale and tell you something good and tell you something bad and make you decide how you want to feel. Yeah. Mm hmm. And yeah, they're definitely OK. OK. How about this? If you could like just based on the like strengths and weaknesses that you know of, not necessarily any one person in mind. But if you could pick somebody, like pick a sign and you're like, oh, I really want to like try to date somebody like that. Who would you pick? I love that question. Well, I'm a Capricorn and we did the whole would you date you? I would totally date me. I would love to like the Capricorn I think for me would be the one I'd be most curious about because I've never dated or even– I don't even think I– I don't even think I've really had friends that are Capricorns. Maybe we're too much alike. Maybe we'd bump heads. I don't know. But I'm curious to see how me and another Capricorn, I guess, would be. That's an interesting take because I have a lot of Aries in my life. I wonder why do Capricorns, like, are they just not pack animals? I don't know a lot of Capricorns. I don't know a lot of Capricorns. Yeah. Other than me? Yeah. I'm trying to think. I think all the Capricorns out there are too busy working. Probably. Probably, honestly. But, I mean, like, Aries kind of stick together, you know? Yeah. We're definitely pack animals for sure. But I think if it were me, I would want to date a Leo. Ooh. Why? I feel like they're very much so. They have the same type of ambition and, like, outgoingness. I've never dated a Leo. As an Aries, but, like, not as stubborn or, like, heated you know what i mean like they're not as like fiery okay okay like they're a little bit more reserved so it's like you're down with my shit but like you're not going to overpower it yeah you know uh-huh okay um i think i don't know i have no i don't really have any experience with leos either see it's so funny how like it's so funny how there's certain signs of the people that we have that are in our lives yeah and like certain signs that we've dated yeah And it's very common. And then there's ones we haven't. Yeah. So I wonder if it's... It's definitely... It's a pattern. It's a pattern. And that's totally the thing. I'm telling you. The other cool thing about this app that I don't even know if you realize is outside of the relationship... aspect of it there's another thing on there that's um like impacting me now and basically you can look at everything that you have today or you can even go back and like look at the past like look at oh line it up line it up with when the trauma went down yeah like what was impacting me at that point right okay so like you go into cycles and like all these cycles you can have anywhere from like two to six going at any time, you know? Oh God. Um, but they'll last for so many months or some are a little bit quicker, only a couple of weeks, you know, this and that will tell you like peak dates, whatever. And, um, It'll tell you, like, all the cycles that you're in right now. Yeah. And, like, what's truly, like, impacting you and, like, where you're headed, like, your direction. So, like, for me, like, in my impacting you now, from April 10th of this year to February of next year, I'm in a healing journey. Oh, that is so true. Wait, how do you do that? We go to you. Okay.

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And then also from March 29th, so just a couple of days after my birthday this year, to late October of next year, I have an activation of power. So don't you feel like I went through like a little shift right after my birthday? I totally do. Oh, okay. Let me see. Activation of power. And then same thing, same date, through the same date. Wholeness and fulfillment. Yeah. And then like attraction and personal growth. dang like that's a long ass cycle i'm going through okay let's see mine so mine says from july to march 2026 is that how yours is too i want to see yeah oh no it's different no they're all different yeah okay so from now to march 5th of 2026 it says faded growth oh what is that okay yeah read deeper during this time events or encounters may occur that could cause you to reassess your life choices this is a time of karmic lessons you're meant to become aware of what is an Bitch. Yeah. And when did that start? July 12th. What's today? The 14th. Okay. Interesting. So there you go. Okay. Let's see. July 12th to March 11th, around the same time, a new phase of career. Podcast maybe? That's weird. During these nine months, you have the chance to make major inroads in your career and public life. It's time to work hard and build your foundation. If you're feeling fulfilled and on the right track, the effort you put in now will pay off. Okay. Dang. All right. All right. And then also July to January, faded dreams. Ooh, July 4th. What were you doing on July 4th? Partying. And it says opportunity and abundance. Dang. Dang. Okay, expansion of home and depth and growth. Damn. See, you've got some good ones coming. Yeah. I wanted to ask you, have you ever heard of this? Maybe I've talked about it before, but I don't think you've done it and I would love to see you do it. So since you got me to do this, I want to get you to do this. So have you guys ever done your human design? It's very similar to this. There's basically you do your human design, you put in your birthday, all of that is reflected off like the stars and like where all the planets are aligned to as well. It's similar. Yeah. But it basically, it's super like, it's so on point too. It hits just like this. And there's like different ones. There's manifestors, projectors, generators, and reflectors. And you can fall into a different category. And then you'll have like an underlining one. So you have like a main one and then an underlining one. And you can literally get a whole, I'll show you the website. You can get a whole, your whole blueprint. And it's so fucking true. And so literally, I love things like this. Like honestly, like this. This just makes me– there is something about, like, understanding the way that things work that really, like, makes me tick. Like, I don't know. Oh, my gosh. I don't know what it is, but it's just, like, it's such a validating feeling. Like, it just feels like there's proof as to why you feel and act the way that you do. Absolutely. It just reminds you that there's something larger out there. Yes. Right? There's something larger out there that's– Yes, that it's, like– because I think a lot of times it's like, okay, well, why am I this way? Or why are they that way? Why are all of us so different? And I feel like, um, it's just all of these things. I feel like this kind of falls under the realm to me under the same realm as like, um, going and talking to, you know, psychics, mediums, life coaches, uh, yoga, sound, like, like it's, these are all modalities to help you, um, better understand yourself to kind of help you. You know, it's not always easy being here. You know what I mean? Being a human on planet Earth, right? Like, it's fucking hard. There's no fucking manual for this. Like, it's tough. We deal with so many challenges, so many ups and downs. I feel like all of these things are put here to help us understand each other better, help us understand ourselves better. And I do think that if you're willing to be open-minded, there's things that were put here to help us on the path a little bit more while we're here. Oh, absolutely. Like the way I think about it is like this, right? Like you're playing in a video game. Okay. And you're trying to choose your character. All right. And it tells you all the like different like like aspects that they have. Right. And it's like somebody's got like, you know, 99 percent speed and 20 percent agility and like, you know, like all these different ratings for like all their attributes. Yeah. I feel like that's what this is for us. It is like, OK, I know that if my attributes are 90, you know, I'm in the 90th percentile for X, Y and Z. I know that I'm going to be better at this and I should go in that direction. And I know if my weakness reflects, you know, ABC, like I'm not going to go and say, you know what, like I'm going to go follow that path. Yeah, it helps you when you know what your strengths and weaknesses are to use them accordingly. To better play the game. And at the end of the day, you guys, that's all fucking life is, is it's a fucking game. We are avatars. We are, I truly believe, a soul in a fucking meat suit. And we are here to have this human experience. And truly, we're here to have this human experience. When you say meat suit, though, I have to tell you, just in my mind, I'm thinking Lady Gaga at the VMAs. I know. Every time I hear that, I think of that. Actually, that was very... kind of like I felt like profound when she did that but um it's like we're just here in these little fucking characters these bodies that it's like we're somebody's sims game seriously like do you I don't know like do you think that do you think that we do you think that we as a soul like chose to come here during the time that we did to like to basically take on the challenges that we did for the growth and expansion of our soul and like our soul's lessons that we need to learn in this life to a degree or how do you look at it you know when you say it like that like i'm thinking about like past life things and i definitely this is going to be so weird and i wish that we would do like a whole episode i know should we wait i know i feel like we could do a whole episode on this but i i will and maybe we should and maybe we should do a little bit more research on it to truly like maybe find out you know, what, what we had going on, you know, but I will say that like, I definitely do believe in past lives. I definitely believe that like our souls are connected to each other in different ways. And like, definitely like throughout different I don't know whether it be the metaverse or just different lifetimes in general. I totally believe in that. Oh yeah, me too. Because I definitely like... That's where the whole Bob Marley, we are one comes from. Because at the end of the day, I feel like we are intertwined. We are connected. Oh, absolutely. Like you said, like even on here where it says like past life connections, like you knew this person before you knew like that person in a different life. Like I definitely feel that way. And I definitely feel like... Like there's some instances and some things that I've encountered in my life where I feel like in a different universe, it was probably different. Oh, yeah. I think that like goes into the topic. And I fully agree. I totally– I believe I've lived many lives. I feel like I've always said I was an old soul. And I feel like if you really think about that claim, old soul, I'm an old soul. Mm-hmm. Think about it. All it really means is I've been here. I've always been told that. I've been here many times. I have always been told that I had an old soul. I love that. I've been told that my entire life. You've probably been here many times. Oh, I'm sure. Yeah. Okay. So you believe in that, right? Yep. Okay. Who do you think you were in a past life? Do you think about it often? Oh, I already know who I was. Oh, yeah. Well, okay. So I guess I'm the only one that needs to do research. I definitely think I was a man. I know I was like a man in a past life for sure. I could see it. That doesn't surprise me. Yeah. I definitely have the ability to be able to... I find it easily to be able to like go in and actually think like how a man thinks. Like I can easily, like I know the way they think. I don't have to explain it. It is different. Okay. But the way that you say that though, like validates me and like how I feel. Okay. Oh, this is so weird. Okay. I can't believe we've never had this conversation. Love it. Maybe we can cut this, make it a whole separate episode. Maybe. Who knows? But no, like... We'll see where we go with it. Yeah. But no, for me, like... This is going to sound so weird, but like in a past life, like I definitely feel, well, actually I kind of feel like there's like two different things that like pop up and I'm not necessarily going to say that they were in the same lifetime, but I definitely feel both like strings being pulled. Okay. But I definitely feel like. I was somebody important and like maybe somebody in like the public life, like whether I'd be like famous or like a celebrity of some sort. A politician maybe of some sort? No, more so like a, not necessarily like a politician, but like definitely somebody that had like a very, very public out facing life. And then there's others where like, I feel like I probably was like, how do i say this i guess maybe like kind of like a criminal in some aspects like you know like maybe like organized crime or something because like you're saying like i feel like there's like a lot of things like that i think of or like when i watch like old like mob movies or like any of those things like i am like i'm the one that figures it out before it like the end every time Like, I know how that movie ends. I know what the next scene is going to, like, entail in, like, such a weird way that, like, nobody else I know. Like, you know what I mean? Like, I'll sit there and, like, watch those things. It's because, like, don't doubt that for a fucking second. Honestly, Cody. Like, I truly a thousand percent feel you on that. And I feel like if that is how you feel, then that's... That's the truth. Like, you know, so one of my favorite movies is Goodfellas. And like the opening line where like, you know, it's Henry Hill and he's like, you know, I always knew I wanted to be a gangster. Okay, how does it... And I'm like, oh my God. Okay, let's move into... Let's move into... So this will go into this. How do you know when something is true? So when you see that, how does it hit you? Is it... Is it a flooding of emotion? Is it, do you get goosebumps? Is it, like, what is it? Like, what is it that you feel? It's just more of, like, a, I don't know, like, when I watch certain things or, like, see certain things, like, it just feels very familiar. And, like, almost kind of like a calming feeling. Like a deja vu? Oh, yeah, no, like, deja vu, like, I definitely have deja vu feelings about certain things.

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But it's definitely more of like a, like a calming, you know, like, like I know it's right. Yeah. Like I'm not questioning it. And you know me, I question everything. Yeah. Like, you know, I should, I should set you up with a session with my psychic. Why my life coach, she's psychic and she's also a medium and she could actually tell you, well, sometimes she can't always, you can ask and it either will or won't come to her, but she could, she can maybe tell you what your past lives were, what you were. We should do that. Yeah, definitely. We should. We could, like, do it on an episode. I'd love to have her on. She's amazing. Yeah. She's, like, helped me navigate through so much. Yeah. Oh, my gosh. But I know that there's– so there's different ways that– because I truly do believe– I honestly believe, like, it's like X-Men. I love to use that example. Like, I truly do believe that all of us have different superpowers. Oh, for sure. And it's just that, you know, in this realm that we're living in, like, this– like, just it's all material. It's like a– people basically go based off just what they can feel and see is true. They don't go off anything else. Right. But at the end of the day, it's like, there's, there's so much more, there's other layers and dimensions to this, this world. There's other worlds. There's other, all those other things. Right. I love, and I love that movie. Um, with Doctor Strange when they have like the multiverse thing and they like go into like the different timelines and like see all the characters doing different things and like living different lives and you're just like oh my god you're like what am I in a different place you know but just imagine this like X-Men like imagine if like we weren't put in a freaking school where we're all taught the same thing and we're all taught these you know if we were able to just yeah like imagine if like when you were born and as you got older you know they tapped into like what your powers were to a degree right for some people like my daughter is a total empath I mean you don't have to say a word she can feel you from a mile away um I feel like for me like I'm very intuitive to a degree and for me like how my intuition shows up and I'm like learning to tap into it more um is for me it's um like I get goosebumps so like I call them truth bumps and like yeah um Like that's how it hits me. Literally anything like that just is super true. This feeling of like over my whole body and like comes over me and I just get goosebumps everywhere. And this isn't just like I know a lot of people get goosebumps. This happens to me often. all the time like almost every day when something hits super true and there's the why i was asking how when you know something is true how it hits you is because like i've talked about this with my life coach and stuff too is there's different ways right like there's uh clairaudience clairvoyance clairsentient which is basically hearing for some people it's hearing it's some people it's feeling like for me it's feeling like because even psychics like you know mediums and people of that nature um they don't all see the truth the same or see um when you ask them a question like it's all different some people see some people feel some right all of their ability because everyone's ability it's a medium right so they all have different mediums in which yeah like things come through yeah um that's very very true i feel like we all have that like i truly do i just feel like it depends on how open you are to believing it and experience it how much you want to I feel like very much you want to let it in how much you want to let it in because I feel like you know um religion has created people that are very religious it creates a very fear base when it comes to these type of things so they make you feel like well you have to be scared of it or something bad could you know I don't know it just but Um, I love it. And I love conversations like this because for me, it's like, this is my shit. This is my bread and butter. Like, have you ever seen all the things where it like shows like little kids, like how they basically say like they can see spirits and like see all those things because it hasn't been like suppressed in them. Yeah. And, um, Like, you'll see, like, different things. Like, I have a friend that, and I'll tell you who it is after this because you'll be like, ooh. But I have a friend that, like, her son. Do you have goosebumps right now? I do. Okay. I have, like, goosebumps, like, about it because it's, like, crazy. But, like, he used to talk to her, like, about his past life when he was a kid. Like, when he was, like, two, three years old. I believe it. And would, like, openly talk about it. Like, as if, like, he, like, still remembered it like it was something he did yesterday. Mm-hmm. And it's crazy because she's very, like, intuitive and has, like, all that kind of stuff, too. Like, she's very, like, woo-woo. Mm-hmm. I love that. So it's just very interesting that, like, her son. I love people that are like that. Like, also kind of, like, had that, too. And I'm like, ooh. Oh, I think the more gifted you are, and then you have children, you hand it down to your kids. Yeah. Absolutely do believe that.

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Yeah.

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It's just a matter of how open do you want to be? How closed off do you want to be? Yeah. You know? Well, and it's also like, it's also like having your kids feel comfortable. Like, because think about it. It's like no matter what it is, right? Like when you're a kid, like you think all kinds of things. Your imagination runs wild. And, you know, one day you might wake up and think you're a dog. You know what I mean? Like all kinds of stuff. But if you're told, no, that's not true. Don't say that again. Or he's, you know, crazy or he doesn't know what he's saying. Yeah. And then they learn to not trust things or they learn that, you know, okay, maybe that's not really a thing. Like that's going to continue to be like prolific and it's just going to be suppressed and suppressed and suppressed. But I totally agree. I think like you have to create a safe space for your kid to just fucking express and, um, you know, um, be able to express whatever it is and just tap in yeah just tap in exactly tap tap tap in well yeah that's crazy I think we could definitely go for like another hour talking about that literally we'll probably do a part two of that but yeah you guys we really just wanted to come on here and kind of show you some of the cool things that we have been talking about and really using on a daily just to kind of help guide us um as we're you know trying to navigate this dating life that we're in and navigate Life, man. Fucking life in general. Yeah, just navigating life. But I would definitely recommend the Pattern app, whether it be for friendships that you want to learn more about, relationships you want to learn more about, or really just yourself and where you're going. Because with the impacting me now and those kinds of things that pop up on there, I'll tell you, I've been using this app for about two years. And it's definitely... helped me course correct with ease versus fighting something that is already in my lane. You know what I mean? And like in my future and, and it's really kind of helped me trust the process as I go. And, you know, I think that everybody would benefit from kind of knowing what's up, you know, it's kind of like your, your to do list, you know what I mean? You look on there and you see what's up and then you're like, okay, I'm not going to be blindsided by my own astrological Yeah. Endeavors. Do, yeah. Do your human design too, you guys. Trust me. Go on there. Do your human design. It's, it helps. And also the other one that we've talked about before, I don't know if you ended up doing it, but we should do it too. Um, which is the one about your, um, what's it called? Your like trauma responses, like your, uh, what your, um. I forget what it's called. I know what you're talking about. Yeah. Like basically your communication style. There's that one. And then also like, if you're a woman, like I just have to throw this out there cause it's coming up for me and I feel like it's just something that, um, and it's another thing that has had, has helped me a lot. Like. If you're a woman, you guys, you need to have an app on your phone where it tracks your cycle. It tells you about the different phases of the month, your luteal, follicle, there's different ones. Because a lot of times when I'm feeling a certain kind of way, it lines up perfectly with where I'm at in my cycle. That is also a huge tool to help you through life because we hormonally, you guys, we're a shit show as women, but it's for a reason. It has to all do with our cycle. And if any given week you are feeling more emotional or more, I mean, you track your cycle. I just have to tell you that. Get an app on your phone, track your cycle. It is every time. It's like, oh, this is why I'm extra hungry today. This is why I am extra moody. I'm extra emotional. I'm having a bad day for no reason oh yeah you know all that right absolutely I mean think about it it's like no matter what you do for work like at some point you went through some training or read some manual or some book or job aid that kind of gave you the you know what to do and what not to do and you follow it for work because that's your job so why would you not want to do that for yourself exactly all right guys well that's all we got yep see you next week see you next time